For many people life is challenging and
even tough. Many times we have to confront injustice or simply
complaints from other people even when using public transport. In my
opinion, in many cases it is better and healthier to just smile and
turn an accusation into a joke instead of beginning a quarrel. Thus,
I fully agree that a good sense of humour is one of the most
important human qualities.
Considering the general public, we can
notice that we generally do not like sad people and many public
figures, especially the successful ones know about that and use the
knowledge on a daily basis. The best speakers in my country usually
insert in their long speeches some jokes and that makes people more
concentrated on the content of the speech because they wait for the
next joke. Furthermore, the most popular professor at my university
starts his lecture with a joke and even if his lecture commences
early in the morning, nobody is late because everybody wants to
listen to his jokes.
Personally, I found that many times my
sense of humour can express my internal thoughts and feelings.
Moreover, when I meet a friend of mine who is cheerful and full of
happiness, the person can make me feel happy as well and transfer his
or her internal good state into my mood and feelings. On the other
hand, if a person is sarcastic then the effect is opposite, even
though a joke can be funny. I hate black humour and my point of view
is that we should avoid this kind of humour.
Socially, it seems to me that most
women like funny men. My friend prepares some new jokes before every
date and he always has a good time with his girlfriends. A good joke
is a good ice breaker and especially at a beginning of a new
relationship. It works not only in our personal life but also in
business. I remember that my first manager recommended me to 'crack a
joke' from time to time. Once, we had a lot of work and had to stay a
bit longer in our office. There was a beautiful sunset and he
complained that he had to be still at work. Then I said that
fortunately it had not been a beautiful sunrise. We laughed at it and
instead of complaining we finished our work faster.
All in all, the sense of humour is very
important. We should use it judiciously and avoid laughing at others.
We should try to find a positive element in every aspect of our
lives. A good sense of humour can help us in many fields, even in
accelerating our career success and enhancing personal life.
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